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Comment on Frenemy by imsonotablogger

imsonotablogger — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 11:51:32 +0000

Yes, kids def see the more simple side of life!

Comment on Frenemy by bhalababy

bhalababy — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:13:08 +0000

Things are so much simpler with kids – they just say: “I don’t want to be your friend anymore”, and move on … then everyone knows where they stand

Comment on Frenemy by Margot

Margot — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:54:30 +0000

Absolutely! Friendships, if they’re worth their name, should survive our developmental stages and evolve with us. I am a great fan of endurance and lifelong connection so I really struggle with someone who at Varsity/during a McJob overseas told me we’d always be in each other’s llives somehow and thenjust fizzle out. If you’re going to leave, leave with a bang not a whimper, that’s what I say!

Comment on Frenemy by bhalababy

bhalababy — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:09:35 +0000

Margot, my friend also just stopped making contact or responding to messages. I had to confront her to get dumped upfront. It was kak but definitely better afterwards ‘cos then I knew where I stood with her. She claimed she was just creating some space … ironic really when her problems sucked me dry for so long and it should have been me who required some space.
Lol, imsonotablogger, that is SO weird! I think sometimes friends just have to mourn the fact that they no longer have you as the same person you were … there are just ways to do it that don’t involve total death of the friendship.

Comment on Frenemy by imsonotablogger

imsonotablogger — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:19:31 +0000

I had one friend who attacked the fact that I now have a child, needless to say, there was a difference of opinion!

Comment on Frenemy by Margot

Margot — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:05:02 +0000

I’m still struggling to understand why I was dumped by a good friend. Instead of discussing it, she seems to prefer pretending I’m not dumped – but as we live in different cities it’s easy for her to maintain an absence in my life. She simply does not make contact. I’d rather be dumped upfront, I guess.

Comment on Living up to expectations by bhalababy

bhalababy — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 12:52:02 +0000

Aaaah, Sash!
I hear you, I really do, but it’s not the case with everyone … you know?

Comment on Living up to expectations by Sasha

Sasha — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 12:24:08 +0000

It’s not because we want to feel needed, it’s because we are too tired to fight…

Comment on A-nother by bhalababy

bhalababy — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 11:58:55 +0000

You’re a scream! All parents need drugs … especially you two.

Comment on A-nother by Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 04:30:35 +0000

Pen – Ant is on drugs, 2 does not balance anything – you’ve seen my TWO! Balanced??